To Hell And Back

7) The Golden Paste

Base is a street drug found in much of South America, though its origins are in the Andes. Called basuco in the Spanish Andes--derived...

Aug 15, 20233 min read

4) Sex Work by Day...

I moved to Ecuador in September of 2009 to conduct my doctoral research on sex work in Quito's red-light district. I was studying at New...

Aug 4, 20234 min read

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To Hell and Back is a blog describing my harrowing descent into cocaine addiction and depression, and my long road back to recovery. My blog's aim is to inspire other addicts and individuals struggling with mental health challenges to show that there is a way out. Recovery is possible.

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FROM HELL TO RECOVERY: MY PERSONAL JOURNEY

20) Cold Water Therapy

Present tense: October 23, 2023, Cape Town, South Africa. I am currently living at Liberty House, a sober living facility in Cape Town. I...

Oct 23, 20235 min read

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19) Validation Junkie

Yes, I was a junkie. Down and out, hopelessly addicted to cocaine. I was as bad as it gets: days-long benders, horrific crashes, stealing...

Oct 20, 20235 min read

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18) I deserve it

This idea, that I “deserve it” fueled my drug use for a very long time. In fact, this rationalization was present from the beginning. I...

Oct 10, 20234 min read

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17) The Art of Flipping

It's all in the eyes--the eyes. That's what the sex workers used to say. They would stare men down as they walked down the...

Sep 26, 20233 min read

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16) One Year Sober!

Today is an exciting milestone for me. I am 365 days clean. 365 days of continuous sobriety. It is a tremendous achievement, as I had...

Sep 19, 20234 min read

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15) A woman for everyone

When I first showed up on the streets, I mistakenly thought that jealousy would be the largest challenge among the sex workers. I thought...

Sep 12, 20233 min read

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14) Hierarchies on the streets

The hierarchy that existed among the sex workers was incredibly complex and took me years to unpack. Where do I begin? First of all, the...

Sep 4, 20233 min read

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ABOUT ME

Welcome to my blog! I am Anna Wilking. I'm a Cultural Anthropologist, PhD, specializing in gender, sex, and sexuality, and an LMSW, currently residing in Cape Town, South Africa. I'm from NYC where I worked as a therapist at an outpatient mental health clinic in Manhattan. In this blog, I share my personal journey of struggling with addiction, depression, and my path to recovery. I hope my story will inspire others who are going through similar struggles. The place that saved my life: https://www.steppingstones.co.za/

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